One of the advantages of being an English nerd is that, even in the most horrible of times, I can remember something I’ve read that brings me a bit of comfort. This week, it was this:
“I wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo.
“So do I,” said Gandalf, “and so do all who live to see such times. But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”
― J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
There is no doubt that the world is in crisis right now. So, what can we do with our time?
- We can realize that a lot of people are afraid right now, and we can be patient and kind.
- We can remember that there is always suffering in the world, and there is never a reason for us to add to it and always a reason to be kind.
- We can choose not to be part of the divisive trolling and criticizing that is so much of public discourse these days.
- We can take breaks when we need to, whether it’s from the news or social media or the daily pressures that we all face.
- We can find the good people (or, as Mr. Rogers said, the helpers).
- And, if I didn’t make myself clear before, we can be kind in our daily interactions.
Gandalf was right. We all may wish that bad things would not happen. But, in reality, we can only choose how we will live through them.